As I was driving this morning I had this profound thought. Let me tell you first what made me think this as I was driving. I was chatting with a friend this morning who said she would help me fill out my divorce papers. So as I was driving to one of my appointments today I thought wow, I am no longer going to have a part of me that lives in darkness. Soon that darkness will be removed from my life.
Enabler - one that enables another to achieve an end; especially : one who enables another to persist in self-destructive behavior (as substance abuse) by providing excuses or by making it possible to avoid the consequences of such behavior
Codependency - is defined as a psychological condition or a relationship in which a person is controlled or manipulated by another who is affected with a pathological condition (typically narcissism or drug addiction); and in broader terms, it refers to the dependence on the needs of, or control by, another.
I have basically been single and a single Mom for years with no emotional support of any kind. The saying what doesn't kill you makes you stronger is a very true statement. I do love my life very much and love making memories. I do believe this is why I have so much love and passion for what I do.
I have survived cancer, I will survive this and this to shall pass.
Best Advice anyone can give don't stay where you are not given any love in return... I did for 25 years waiting for it to get better......